Happy New Year 2026, fellow lovers of hospitality!
I hope the year started on a good foot—and I’m sure it did for the hospitality industry. The holidays usually bring a surge in bookings for hotels, restaurants, and travel services. One thing this industry thrives on is ratings. Hosts go the extra mile to ensure guests leave satisfied, because a good rating means repeat clients and attracts new ones. Business thrives on it.
“The customer is king” has become the unspoken motto. While this pushes hosts toward excellence, it has also quietly produced another reality—guests who feel entitled, careless with spaces that aren’t theirs, and sometimes forgetful of basic respect. I often wonder if hospitality workers wish they could say this out loud. Interestingly, taxi services now allow drivers to rate clients as well.
We spend so much time talking about being good hosts—or critiquing others’ hospitality (he didn’t welcome me properly, she didn’t offer food, they weren’t warm enough). Yet when do we pause to reflect on whether we ourselves are gracious or considerate guests?
Today, we’ll explore the other side of the hospitality coin: what it means to be a great guest in 2026—and beyond.
Last year, I had the opportunity to host many people, and it was a true blessing. One person in particular stood out and inspired this article (haha—not to say the others did not do well, but this one really made me ponder how I could be a better guest), and I am going to use his story as an example throughout this write-up.
But first!
Why Is Being a Great Guest Important?
Just like in the hospitality industry—where a positive review leads to repeat visits and new clients—being a good guest in the home often determines whether you will be welcomed again and whether others will ever be welcomed at all. A careless guest doesn’t just close doors for themselves; they sometimes unknowingly shut the door on future guests who could have benefited from that same hospitality.
Many people hesitate to open their homes after difficult experiences with previous guests—guests who overstayed their welcome, crossed boundaries, mishandled belongings, complained constantly, or treated the host’s home like a hotel rather than a gift. Over time, these experiences drain the joy out of hosting. What was once a ministry becomes a burden, and some homes that were meant to be places of warmth and refuge quietly close their doors.
And if you are a Christian, the call goes even deeper.
The Bible reminds us that our conduct speaks loudly about the faith we profess. “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). That includes how we show up in other people’s homes. As guests, we are ambassadors of Christ, of our values, and of the gospel we carry.
Scripture also exhorts us to be mindful of others: “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves” (Philippians 2:3). A great guest is not impressed, entertained, or endlessly served, but one who is considerate, grateful, and aware that hospitality is a sacrifice—not an entitlement.
So what does being a great guest actually look like in practical, everyday terms—especially in 2026?
As mentioned earlier, this article was inspired by a very special guest I had the privilege of hosting—someone who quietly taught me many lessons without ever preaching.
He arrived at a time when I honestly did not feel up to hosting. I had a lot going on and was worried I wouldn’t be a “good enough” host. I didn’t have time to buy extra groceries, cook special meals, or even properly prepare his room. Everything in me felt inadequate.
But as God would have it, hospitality is not about perfection—it’s about willingness.
Just like the boy who offered his five loaves and two fish, I showed up with what little I had, and God did the multiplying. “They all ate and were satisfied” (Matthew 14:20). What I feared would be stressful turned into a blessing—for both of us.
Through his stay, I observed several qualities that quietly defined what it truly means to be a great guest. Here are nine qualities of a great guest.
1. A Grateful (and Flexible) Guest
From day one to his last day—nearly eight weeks later—he was consistently grateful. Saying thank you for one meal or one night is easy. Saying it daily, even for the simplest things, requires intentionality.
He would thank me for meals I personally considered very basic. I would eat the same food and wonder, Is this really the same meal he’s praising?
Gratitude and flexibility often go hand in hand. A grateful guest is not quick to complain or compare. They understand that every home functions differently and learn to adapt with grace rather than critique. Not every meal will meet your preferences, not every routine will suit you—and that’s okay.
“Do everything without grumbling or arguing” (Philippians 2:14).
A great guest does not see hospitality as a right or entitlement, but as a gift. Gratitude protects relationships—and flexibility preserves peace.
2. A Helpful (and Independent) Guest
On the very first day he arrived, I wasn’t even home to receive him. To make matters worse, I had left in a rush—with dirty dishes in the sink. Imagine my surprise when I returned home to a clean kitchen.
He gently said he hoped I didn’t mind and that I shouldn’t be afraid to involve him in household chores. He even suggested I treat him like a “child of the house.” (Mind you—he was no child, lol.)
He cooked. He cleaned. (Admittedly, much better than I do.)
But beyond being helpful, he was also independent. He didn’t expect to be constantly entertained or waited on. He knew how to keep himself occupied, run small errands, and manage his time without placing emotional or logistical pressure on the household.
A good guest doesn’t arrive only to receive; they come ready to contribute—without needing to be managed.
“Serve one another humbly in love” (Galatians 5:13).
3. A Thoughtful (and Prepared) Guest
He arrived with gifts—and even left some behind. Beyond that, he insisted on contributing to household groceries.
Thoughtfulness also showed up in his preparedness. He didn’t expect the household to adjust to all his personal preferences. If he needed specific items—such as special toiletries or personal care products—he made sure to pack them or obtain them himself.
Thoughtful guests understand that while a host opens their home, the host is not required to provide everything.
“The prudent see danger and take refuge” (Proverbs 22:3).
Preparation is a quiet way of saying, I don’t want to be a burden.
4. A Considerate Guest
Most hosts will say, “Help yourself” or “Feel at home.” But that should never translate into carelessness.
Being considerate means being mindful of shared food, shared spaces, water and electricity usage, noise levels, and even bathroom time—especially when there’s only one toilet (yes… I said it 😅).
Consideration says, I am aware that I am not alone here.
“Love your neighbour as yourself” (Mark 12:31).
5. A Tidy Guest
A home is not a hotel—with cleaning services included.
His room remained clean. The bathroom was left tidy after use. Plates were cleared after meals. I never had to worry about cleaning up after him.
These small acts communicated respect more loudly than words ever could.
“Whoever is faithful in little things is faithful also in much” (Luke 16:10).
6. A Respectful Guest
Respect extends beyond people to the home’s values. A respectful guest honours house rules, family rhythms, and cultural or spiritual practices—even when they differ from their own.
“Show proper respect to everyone” (1 Peter 2:17).
7. A Communicative Guest
Communication is essential in shared living.
Are you stepping out? Coming back late? Sleeping elsewhere? Communicate.
Do you plan to invite someone over? Always ask first.
Bringing your own guest into someone else’s home without prior communication places the host in an awkward position. A communicative guest understands that transparency builds trust.
“Let your ‘yes’ be yes” (Matthew 5:37).
8. A Present (and Involved) Guest
While staying in your room all day may feel like “minding your business,” it can unintentionally communicate distance or disinterest—especially in families that value shared meals, conversations, or devotions.
Being present also means being mentally present. Avoid being constantly on your phone or wearing headphones in shared spaces. Presence says, I value connection.
“Encourage one another and build each other up” (1 Thessalonians 5:11).
Of course, work and personal time matter—but absence should not become a pattern.
9. A Guest Who Knows When to Leave
Finally, a great guest is mindful of timing. They don’t overstay their welcome and ensure they haven’t left behind physical or emotional belongings.
Knowing when to leave well is just as important as arriving well.
“There is a time for everything” (Ecclesiastes 3:1).
Conclusion
Hospitality does not begin at the door of the host—it starts in the heart of the guest. In a world that increasingly centres comfort, convenience, and entitlement, choosing to be a great guest is a quiet but powerful act of love. It says, I see your sacrifice. I honour your space. I value relationships over service. As we step into 2026 and beyond, may we not only open our homes well but also enter the homes of others with humility, gratitude, and grace—remembering that every invitation is a gift and every stay an opportunity to reflect Christ.
Prayer
Father,
Thank You for every home that welcomes me. Give me a grateful, considerate, and humble heart. Help me to serve, not feel entitled; to honour space, time, and people; and to reflect Your love wherever I am received.
May my presence bring peace, not pressure, and may I always remember that hospitality is a gift.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Which 2025 guest left a good impression on you, and what did they do?
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Once again, Happy New Year!!!
Inside-Out Hospitality 
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